Suicide of Ash Haffner

Ash Haffner was a North Carolina student who died by suicide in 2015 at age 16, after being bullied for years because they identified as LGBTQ.

Background
Ash Haffner was born April 28, 1998 as the child of April Quick. Starting in the 8th grade, after identifying as lesbian, Ash started becoming bullied by peers and was also denied becoming friends with some other girls by their parents. Since the 9th grade Ash was gender-questioning. A note that Ash once wrote about that topic reads:

In their spare time Ash made poems and songs which (insofar recorded) Ms. Quick, Ash's mother, posted on Ash Haffner's YouTube channel after their death. Among them are "Sleepwalking", "Poison" and the song that has been named as "Ash's song".

After Ash cut their hair short, the amount of bullying increased and finally culminated in suicide on February 26, 2015. After Ash texted friends warning them of their plans, the friends alerted Ash's mom. Their mom rushed down and saw a crowd gathering on the street. Ash had jumped in front of a car during rush hour.

On Ash's laptop the following text was found:

Ash's classmates at Porter Ridge High School held a vigil in their honor while speaking out against bullying. Ms. Quick later became an anti-bullying activist.

Media coverage
Media coverage after the death of Ash was heightened because recently three American transgender teenagers died of suicide: Leelah Alcorn, Zander Mahaffey, Melonie Rose; and because youth suicides in North Carolina reached a peak.

The earliest media coverage of Ash's death in Gay Star News, and in Planet Transgender, suggested that Ash was fully transgender and, moreover, suggested that Ash's mother did not accept them as transgender. A blog reported two different statements about Ash's gender identity by people who claimed to have known Ash personally. A later article in the Charlotte Observer provided more background detail and pictured an open and honest mother. Gay Star News added a section to the original article indicating that it had been premature to depict Ash as fully transgender.

There were also commemoration videos about Ash on YouTube by various people, among them a video by the transgender teenager Kovu Kingsrod, which Ash's mother added to the playlist on the Ash Haffner YouTube channel.